Hello Luv Nation! I got some great help last time I posted something so I figured I would try again

I have narrowed my fuel issues down to my fuel pump and relay. I have jumped the relay strait to the pump, I have power at the pump, therefore I figured pump no worky. However... I have plugged the relay in most of the way, and I tested the fuel pump part, and no power, so I believe the relay is bad aswell.
Heres the problem. As many of you know, you can't buy 'em anymore.

I have to replace with a universal 5 prong. The new relay has the picture that shows how it works, but the picture of the stock relay is too confusing for me.

Wiring is the hardest for me.
Can anyone tell me (remember, I'm ignorant) step by step how to do this? I would love to get my LUV on the road. It's a '79 4x4.... Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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1974 Mikado 4x4 50,000 orig. miles
