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Too bad their aint a good websight about help with chicks and why they confuse us. Damn women are hard to understand.

well heres the cituation.. I met this girl my freshman year, we have been really good friends ever sence, through the years we have gotten close to haveing a closer relationship than just frineds, we always do stuff for her, I've spent well my dad said thousands on her. She would always flirt with me and no one elce for a long time, and then she would go push me away again and its been off and on for years. We both graduated and well some months she's like flirting with me very much, other times she's says that she just wants to stay home and not do any thing. we have gotten physical a little but not crossed the line. I'm confused and fustrated at the same time. should I keep on trying , I like her more than any elce and i've liked alot of girls, or should i just leave it be? I'll write some more later but i'm off to work. thanks for any help given

Tell her how you feel about her, spell it out. If she says anything other than, she wants to be with you, move on and don't look back. Its not worth the bull. m2p

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Tellin' her is the only way to know if anything can happen. And if she doesn't agree then you go your seperate ways, cause there will be one hell of a rift after that.

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well crap I was going to talk to her and so she couldnt make up an excuse or some thing on the phone I was going to talk to her in person. Well first off theres alot in common in us than most people , her dad is my boss I have known him before he go the job. We started working at the same place about 3 days apart well we worked togeather for 2 yesrs now she gets hired so at work i'm forbidden to talk to her about any thing other than work, well to get back to what I was saying, I tried for 3 days to get a hold of her her house phone, cell , and work nuttin , she didnt answer or tell me any thing. well I finaly got a hold of her dad and he told me that they were on a trip to oklahoma city about 5 hrs from town, for 2 weeks. When she gets back should I tell her how i feel after us going to see a movie or dinner , or should I tell her on just an ordanary day? I did think of telling her on her birth day aug. 9th 2 days after mine. Personaly I dont know what to say , I still get nervice talking to her.I guess the sad part is that I foucused on her so much these past 4 years that basically the only things that matter are Raeanna (the girl)truck , motorcycle , career. To add to our history of what i said earlier for the first 2 years we used to hang out like 5 times a week or more every single day, she's the only person that I hang out with , even our grand parents thing that we are engaged or are going to get married (that would be perfictly fine with me as long as she's happy), and theirs basically nothing i havent done for her, flowers, dimonds, fixing her P.O.S cars, teaching her how to drive (thought u would crap my pants, and many many others. I guess the thing is that its hard for me to describe in words how I feel for her.

There's no way a website would do any good. Women are too complex for even themselves. Your situation of working within her family structure doesn't help matters. The only thing i can think of is to accept the fact that this situation is all F$&% up and focus on keeping your job. Men can do this easier than women. As guys get older, the easier it becomes. We choke stuff like this down and die earlier. I have to think that you're a younger person because you wouldn't bring this up on a website, but in this case with the crew that hangs around here, you will get honest feedback without being rideculed. None of us are walking in your paticular shoes so be careful of what you do or say. We've all had our own situations that have blown up in our faces. Think this all thru with your head, not your heart. You may not be able to control her but you have total control of keeping your job. If you let things get out of hand you could lose her and your job. Keep the job and she'll have to figure herself out on her own.

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Ill have to second that

my personal opinion would be to let things sit for a while, ignore her if you have to let her make all the moves, ive come to the conclusion that chicks love attention, if you dont give it to them they will come looking for it. ive been with my gf for 3 yrs and believe me they get sick of waiting

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No matter how good she looks, some other guy is sick and tired of putting up with her crap!

Pump up your courage, tell her straight forward, with no BS, like a man about how you feel. If she doesn't tell you straight out that she feels the same way - dump her because you are being played, punked, used, etc. If she does feel the same way - then tell her to start acting like it because you want to take thing to a higher level then they are now, or you are gonna move on - and mean it.

And for christ's sake - pull it together and stop whining.

Time to put some starch in that backbone, son.

A faint heart never won a fair maiden and a shy d*ck is a dry d*ck.

I agree with tumwateraz. The situation has got to be resolved some way or another. good luck!

(ps don't do it on her birthday)

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well $h^t i finaly told her and she's like "I just want to be your friend , she still flirts and stuff. and i feel like banging my head on some thing hard. well to put it bluntly i feel like $h^t. well just thought I'd update my cituation, whyis it that the girls that you like the most (at least in my case) dont like you back?

There is nothing you can do. Just be her friend and find another girl.

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in my limited experiance as im only 17 would be that people, no matter if they are male female in-between or not, people in general always want what they cant obtain. hard truth is that it is over and done with just stick to your job, suck it up, and find another girl. just my pennys worth, thought it wouldnt hurt.

Chris

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well reading through the other reply's i thought id voice my own opinion, ive had situations like this in the past as well, as my best friend has also. i have had girl problems in the past, mainly staying w/ one that i shouldnt have (cheaters never change), than having the runaround such as yours w/ other chicks. trust me, if you never asked her, you would regret it. i had a couple situations like that, and they fell apart, which looking back really sucks b/c they were both beautiful girls with great personalities. and if you dont like all the flirting, just tell her, maybe she will stop. just my 2 cents.