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Hey everyone, I haven't posted in a long time, but when you live in Greenacres there isn't much to post about. Anyways I've got a few problems, and was wondering if anyone could help me. Okay, so it all started in November, when I friend introduced me to this girl. I really liked her, and asked her out on a date about a month later. By that time we were good friends, and she said she just wanted us to be friends for now. So, about 2 months after that, we were in a romantic situation, in none other than my trusty Chevy LUV! and we kissed. After that for about 1 and a half months were freinds with benefits, and I asked if we could have a "real relationship". and she said not at the moment, again After that she said that we should stop, because it made things seem wierd. And then she liked 2 other guys, and always asked me how to get them and stuff. Things are looking promising for both of them, and I don't want to make her mad about bringing the subject up again, or ruin her thing with her hopeful boyfriend. So, what should I do, tell her I still like her, or just help her get a boyfriend? I've already tried to not like her in a more than a friend kind of way, but it doesn't work. I basically think about her all day, and I can't get her out of my head. What do you guys suggest?

sorry to everyone who reads this, it's long and probably something you don't want to read, so thank you to anyone who replies.

look kid just buy another Luv truck !!!

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Ahh isn't love a great thing! Here's my advice...

This is only one girl...one of MANY girls in this world. Unless you live in a "Country Music Song" world...move on and find another. Easier said then done, but from my own expeirence its the best thing to do. If you can't bring yourself to it...turn on your local country radio station and you will fit right in...

I agree w/ smokinLUV. Speaking from my own experience, it would be better just to move on. You need to be with someone who is as into you as much as you are into them. Although it's tough to walk away, I really believe that is the best thing in a situation like this.
"Omnia fert aetas, animum quoque." Virgil
Time bears all away, even memory.

i.e. It sucks now, but it will go away.

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relationships are like cars when the perfect one comes along they come out with a new model thats even better. some people downgrade some upgrade some come with more options that others. some carry a lot of baggage and others none. they can all lose value over time few actually gain it. some are more expensive than others but either way you have to pay for them. by initial cost or accerories to customize them how you want. but in the end when it`s time to trade one in there are millions of them out there to choose from. don`t look for a relationship it will find you when you aren`t looking .

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00 & 06 silverado one 4x4, turboed vw sandrail,99 banshee, 06 raptor 700, 02 polaris trailblazer.

Move on... There are others that will catch your eye. Im in a similar situation, but mine is a lil tougher to deal with cuz I just found out I either have to move at the beginning of next month and get a really good paying job, or stay here with a shytty job but have a chance with an absolutely beautiful chick whom I met at my work...... not to mention I would have to trialer my luv and boat and buggy across the state.....

Dude,
Spankys right..........buy another luv,drop in a sbc and 400 horse shot of dope and go racing.Youll forget about her and some other hottie will be begging for a ride..........

Hey Guy,
You need to do what everyone on this page has said to do. She has told you what she wants, and the more you try to get her to like you, the worse it gets for you. She really went a long way to get you to like her, but in the end it's just to get close to your buddies. The best thing to do is what you really don't want to do RUN, DON'T WALK TO THE NEAREST ACTIVITY YOU CAN DIVE INTO. Usually a female will only get intimate with you if she really cares about you. Sounds like some really unfair play going on, and it's not you doing it.

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lol...wut a funny post...i say ditch the crazy bitch but hey if you really want her that bad run the other way and she'll probably wonder why you dont care about her nemore and chase after ya...

Here's an update for you guys. Yesterday, me and her were watching a movie at her house and we were both under a blanket, and I was just beginning to like just being friends with, when she started flirting with me under the blanket. Basically, she touched me during the whole movie. And then today, I was talking to her on the phone, and I asked what she and her hopeful boyfriend did at his house on saturday. And she said that they made out. But she would have rather not done it, that's the impression I got from her. And when I asked her if she wanted to go out with him, she said I don't know, and maybe, like she doesn't want me to think she wants to go out with him or something. And I can't just stop hanging out with her, because we're best friends. And I don't know how to meet another girl, or where to do it. Because now, whenever me and my friends hang out, they bring their bf's or gf's, so i'm the only single one there, waching everyone cuddle with their partner. It's enough to make me go insane. So, yeah, that's my life right now.

DOOOOD!!! Having a g/f/partner wutevr , having sex, kissing...its all freakin wayyyy overrated...i was like you about 2 years ago and its not even worth your time worrying about a chic man...have fun while u can. When its time some gorgeous chic whos perfect for you will be there and you'll know its time to have a grl...serious...sounds stupid...but ya...dont bother with that chic man shes just screwin with ur head man...hate to tell ya but ya thats it, dont go for it.

yeah, ok, I read this the other day, but now I had to say something. This is coming from a girl. That girl is totally messing with your head! (and she may not even realize it) She doesn't even know what she wants, and she's confusing you! Just keep it strictly friends, and let her know. Don't get yourself into "under the blanket" situations, etc, either! She's confused right now, so just leave her alone to figure it out, and you should do your own thing, don't wait around for her. Seriously, don't even worry about being the only single person in the group, that is a lame excuse to keep it up with her. You should be able to have fun with your friends anyways. And if your friends always bring their girlfriends, then arrange to just hang out with the guys sometime! I'm sure they wouldn't mind. There are plenty of places to meet girls, work, school, clubs, whatever. Don't any of your friends have a friend who is single? Just be outgoing, girls like that. Good Luck.

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hey jess, good way of explainin it. of course we couldnt say anything that smart, we are guys and dont think that way.... but yeah dude, get out and about and you will find someone else. i met my girl at my work, and my best bud met his at wal-mart... of all places....

Hey Guy,
If you don't listen to any of the guys on this board, and they are all saying the same thing, listen to the woman's point of view. Jess has a perspective that none of us has. She sees things from the woman's point of view, and has told you what's going on. I know something in your head is telling you something's not right, or you would not have posted it on this board. I may come off sounding harsh or cruel, but listen to your common sense, not your hormones.

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I would have to agree man...All of us are guys.....and if we arent making sense listen to Jess.....just like everybody else said she has a point of view that we dont......good luck man....I know its harsh coming from us but would be better in the long run...... And unfortunately a long while ago had myself in the same situation and nothing ever came out of it just hurt for me....friends would be the best......And trust me I know it hurts......

[quote="hondakidus"]So, what should I do, tell her I still like her, or just help her get a boyfriend? I've already tried to not like her in a more than a friend kind of way, but it doesn't work. I basically think about her all day, and I can't get her out of my head. What do you guys suggest?[quote]

I think you should hit the red light district first, get over her cause after you done went and did it it wouldn't have been worth it. It is all about anticipation then it was no biggie after that.

Then, go get another project truck and she can visit when your busy.

Been there, done that. Got the girl, lost a buddy, a big ol mess. Found out she was playing someone elses flute, so lost the girl. But still have my truck.

Some things are just constant.

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i agree with what everyones sayin'. im sure we all have faced a time just like you're goin' through or similar. but trust me the hardest part is letting go but once you accomplish that you'll look back and laugh at the memory of it all. the tough thing is its just like jessmn said the girls confused. and she doesnt even know what she wants. dont put your feelings in the hands of someone who will be reckless with them. and in all honesty maybe a friendship with this girl isnt the best thing for you. you might have to distance yourself from her. and on a side note....(wicked) be careful dude. make sure you are 100% sure of your decision for staying. its a tough thing to give up a great opportunity for someone. just make sure you make the right decision for yourself because regret is a terrible thing and could possibly end up ruining that relationship that you stayed for. just lookin' out cuz i know what kind of situation you're in.

Like Batman said:

"It's the car - Chicks dig the car."

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More LUV than one man could ever need - Spread the LUV!
- 1976 Chevy Longbed - Daily Driver
- 1981 Chevy Shortbed 4X4 - Needs Help!
- 1981 Chevy Luv 4X4 - Newly put together

Thanks everyone, you guys have helped me out alot. I've been distancing myself from her lately, and it seems like she's doing the same, anyway, I've just trying to be more outgoing and stuff, and have met some pretty cool people that I've meant to meet for a long time, but haven't had the courage to. It's pretty sweet. Now, the only thing I have to worry about is my drive test, which is on the 1st of june, and how I'm going to pay for insurance wish me luck!

Good Luck